Is Your Relationship Flourishing?
Measure how much your relationship is helping you grow, thrive, and become your best self. Answer 13 questions to discover your flourishing score. Takes 2-3 minutes!
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About This Test
What It Measures
This test measures relationship flourishing - whether your partnership actively helps both people grow, thrive, and become better versions of themselves. It evaluates celebration of accomplishments, relationship investment, genuine interest, meaningful shared experiences, emotional availability, goal support, intentional growth activities, personal development through partnership, psychological safety, relationship-centered decision making, effort naturalness, perspective broadening, and gratitude expression. This goes beyond satisfaction or happiness - it measures whether the relationship makes you genuinely better, not just content.
How It Works
You'll respond to 13 statements about growth-oriented relationship behaviors and experiences. Questions cover both what you actively do (celebrate partner wins, invest effort, make yourself available) and what you receive (feeling supported in goals, becoming better through the relationship, having perspective broadened). Your score places you on a spectrum from exceptional partnership (rare, precious mutual growth) to stagnant partnership (not helping either person thrive). The test is based on positive psychology and research showing that the best relationships aren't just conflict-free - they actively facilitate human flourishing.
When to Use This Test
Take this test if you're wondering whether your relationship is good enough or truly great, if you feel you've stopped growing as a person since coupling up, if you're evaluating whether this partnership brings out your best self, if you're comparing 'comfortable' to 'extraordinary', or if you're in couples therapy working on deepening beyond conflict resolution. This is particularly useful for people in long-term relationships wondering if they've plateaued, for those choosing between 'fine' and 'exceptional' partnership options, or for couples wanting to shift from surviving to thriving.